We must survive but happily.

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Problems are part of our lives. We invite some and few occur uninvited. They seem to be out of control sometimes and how others remark our issues bluntly makes us go mad. They advice us to relax and take it easy and when they go through the same they are simply living our trauma too.
Another human tendancy after all!

I think my problems are always bigger then the others. And every other human thinks the same.

But what I really want to suggest here is getting at our hyper mode won’t really change the situation. The situation is going to remain the same and will change either for good or bad. All we should do is not let it impact our lives in a negative way.

Why? Because unless we keep ourselves content with what we have, our mind won’t possess the stability to deal with what is happening. Try to get involved in something else till the phase disappears. Eventually we are still going to have what was supposed to happen. One shouldn’t drown themselves in their grievances so much that they keep their lives aside.

(I’m going through a similar phase, it is difficult I understand. But trust me I’m doing and feeling better then what I used to before)

All you have to do is survive, but happily instead.

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Have a happy reading & writing 🙂

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Thinking about getting back to your ex ?

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Soumili’s tale tried narrating us about this girl, who comes across her ex boyfriend after several years and finds him totally different, good and improved. She feels good knowing that today he is a better person. So she refers him to her mother as a new guy with a sigh of relief.

We come across such situations very rarely because we know many people never change. It’s rare that a person will try to improve their character for someone else.

We must not expect anyone to stop betraying, cheating, fooling or playing around if that’s what they have been enjoying.

Need an example ?

Don’t you enjoy icecreams? So what if having too much ice cream can cause you problem, you have money and enough time so you’ll enjoy right? Similarly there are people who prefer taking pleasures even if they have to hurt someone else.

It is important for us to understand that the reason why they have been living this character is only because they are enjoying that very state.

The character of some people will always remain unpredictable so why must you deal with it? Few might come back to your life and make you feel they have changed, well and good if they have. But what if they are still the same deep within?
They must have convinced you or your heart must have felt that this time you can trust them. The only thing you must do is forgive them and move on instead of getting back.

Please don’t forget why at the first place you were seperated.

If you ever feel somebody has changed for good, wish them good luck, leave and lead towards exploring the other good things in your life. Like I have always suggested, you can live without. Be your own hero okay!

And if you still feel the one needs to be given a chance, go ahead but this time be careful.

Have a happy reading 🙂

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Sleep talking secrets!

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People can hardly pretend or lie in their sleep. Often the habit of sleep talking reveals the underlying truth of a person’s life. It discloses many interesting facts which are either sweet or bitterly sour.

The best part about someone sleep talking next to you is an easy understanding about what the person feels for you. Or how deeply a person feels about something.
Though the saddest part is coming across those facts which are not going to help you and also affect your emotions, diversely.

Have you ever heard anybody sleep talking? I know it is difficult to understand what the person is murmuring. Sleep talking is connected to what a person does throughout the day and where their mind was largely occupied into.

Here are some examples :

These people usually tend to extend the incomplete conversations of the day. Whatever they were involved into, their imaginary process repeats the same in their mind while they are asleep.
In such cases the person would only speak those things which they must have not spoken while awake.

Sometimes they reveal hidden truths upon asking as well. Try this if you want to involve some fun but I would suggest you to be careful if you are not good at accepting and handling truths.

There is a certainty of a person waking up to your questions immediately or upon them responding to your questions unknowingly too. That is an effective signal. A person will wake up with a sudden reaction only when they are aware that they don’t have to reveal certain things before you, either good or bad. They panic or pretend to not have understood what you asked, if they wake up after answering you something that you must have found weird. There lies the secret. It could be anything, a surprise planned for you, their personal issues, their plans etc.

If the person happens to be your partner, the sleep talks are either cheat-talks or love-talks. 

Don’t believe me? Try it on your family members, friends or partner.
It could be fun but be careful.

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Have a happy reading & writing.

Defiance walks along!

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Time may surely strip away everything that is apparent about a person, has its own way to follow what is already planned and prove it to you!

Throughout the whole process you might not be able to recognise your actual perception towards the person. The confusion may last till this unrecognizable state goes away revealing you the real self of somebody!

If emotions fall to raise constant questions, go slow! Look around, the world has a lot to offer and you deserve it all!

Pay attention, let your time bear the true essence and beauty of the person. And if it starts playing a sea-saw, get alert and balance!

Someone must have written it properly to make you understand that one shouldn’t grip over probabilities, so why don’t you follow the same?

Always have a clear vision about your position in someone’s life and where you stand! If you feel it isn’t  where you belong, then relax! Maybe the person isn’t your last!

Don’t get carried away keeping unnecessary hopes! Unpredictability provides no stablility! Regain your senses and move towards achieving your goals. Let others find their way to reach you and win over!

Walk, no matter if defiance walks along! Possible actions is what you have thought for yourself! Don’t settle with any feeling that ain’t worthy of your time!

Because what’s possible is always visible!

Bad over Good

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He was a cop and you a killer,
were that little boy playing guns with a choice dissimilar.

Born with no choice for where you would go, but were given a chance to how you would grow. Forever wrong decisions, have let you reap what you sow.

Behind every bad you did and every road that you left, were no mates but your denial. To the good you din’t accept.

Every paper you own, is the sweat of some other, never chose to earn for your good and better.

You loved with your choice, let her go as well. You felt when you needed, then you fled and fell.

With time she was gone and you chose to give up on.

Decision is always yours, if you wish to make things happen, then yes you could.
But you invest your time choosing bad over good.

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